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Marriage AdvertisementsThey put advertisements in newspapers. Sundays are the day Canada Goose Jackets in which newspapers will be filled with the bride/groom wanted ads. Apart from that, in the parish bulletins, parish newspapers also give facility to enter the ads. Nowadays, there are matrimonial sites, dedicated only for Christian people. Like chavaramatrimonial etc.

Once the advertisements are running, there comes the occasion seeing the bride (pennukanal). Once the ad is okay, they will communicate via phone and fix a day, in which the groom along with close friends and relatives will come to see the bride. If both are okay, then further matters are discussed like, how and what next. In some areas, the bride’s party will visit back the grooms place to confirm, that everything is okay.

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Usually the gifts given among the rich families is like posh cars, property, bank balance etc. while normal family give bank balance and gold ornaments.

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Pre Marriage CoursesBefore the betrothal, both the bride and groom are supposed canada goose coats to attend the pre marriage course conducted by the archdiocese. Usually the classes are for three days. Since nowadays, bride and groom, being working, the classes are conducted on Friday, Saturday and Sunday.

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After the lunch, the groom’s canada goose clearance party will reach brides home and where the groom is given an amount to buy dress canadian goose jacket by bride’s brother. Again any gift given as amount or property is handed over by bride’s uncle to grooms uncle. Later as usual, black tea is served as a sign of sendoff to the team / grooms party.

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buy canada goose jacket Wedding Ring and ThaliAgain the wedding ring to exchange during the marriage is purchased and the name is embossed in the ring. The next important thing is the thali or minnu made of gold. it is purchased by the groom along with a chain for the bride. The chains length should be up to the heart of canada goose black friday sale the bride when worn in her neck. This is will be given to the bride at the time of marriage. Similar way, the bride’s party also will buy a chain for the groom. buy canada goose jacket

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canada goose clearance sale Madhuram Veppu or Sweet CeremonyNight before the marriage, at the brides and grooms house, the sweet ceremony is conducted. The bride /groom is placed in a special seat and then the prayers are done and the uncle of the bride/groom will ask to the group of close canada goose store relatives, whether he shall give the bride/groom the sweet, It will be asked three times and then sweet is given to the bride/groom. Now a day’s mehendi function, just like as that of Muslim custom is also conducted along with madhuram veppu ceremony. It is actually a get together of all relatives and friends before the marriage. canada goose clearance sale

MarriageMarriage is usually conducted by the groom’s party, at groom’s parish. In the morning the bride and groom gets ready and do the prayer and get blessings from the elders. “Praise to be to Jesus Christ” is what is to be said to them.

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The marriage is usually done along with the holy mass. The marriage is blessed in the middle of the holy mass, by the priest. The thali is blessed and then the groom will tie the thali in bride’s neck. Then as a custom, the manthrakoodi is also blessed and the groom, make it wear by the bride on her head. Later ring exchange is also done. Once the marriage is over they take oath of marriage, in the name of holy bible.

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